Do you beleive Ego stroking is useful

As we all know, Human beings by nature are approval seekers. Isn’t it ?

I am sure you will agree with me on the above which is why I believe that most of the time we can influence others by stroking their ego.

How to Influence others by nourishing their ego??

1. Understand ego - It’s the most self-oriented, most personal part of one’s mind. Your ego is your cardinal soul or spiritual substance and regulates your self esteem and mental state. It leads your reaction or response for each action of others directed toward you. The ego molds and influences one’s outlook toward others and toward oneself. It’s by far the most receptive part of one’s philosophical and psychological structure. Having knowledge and understanding of what our ego is and how it leads each action facilitates us to communicate and interact in a more positive and favorable manner.
2. Look for something which you could earnestly admire or compliment as Praising genuinely makes people feel good mentally and physically.
3. Begin by complimenting other individuals with ego nourishment. Praise them with how good looking they are, for the work that they do, what their family does/have, their possessions, etc.
4.Set your own ego aside and stroke others’ egos to get more of what you want. In this practical world of ours, being successful is measured in part by what we own. We judge other people’s successes by what they possess in materialistic point of view. Like it or not, people long for admiration for whatever they have acquired, accomplished, and who they really are not considering the status of life they’re living.

If you want to create miracles, influence others and win their support, then praise them for what they are, what they have or what they do

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